Saturday, July 21, 2012

Freewriting Assignment 13. 7-21-12

Freewriting Assignment 13. 7-21-12

Topic: Drama in a relationship

How do most people handle these situations? Some using anger, others using kindess to win their relationship partner over. Everybody who is in a long lasting relationship has dealt with this issue.  I, for one, use kindness and logic to end the drama. I am a person who really dislikes these type of situations, and no one answer is perfect for each drama conversation that comes up. I wish I had the answer to solve these problems that end a typical relationship, but I do not. My girlfriend likes to use anger. As you can imagine, it's a little confusing when we argue. We always figure it out, but I don't understand why we get in these situations to start with. I am not sure if my approach is the best way to handle these things, but it seems to work okay for us. I've seen a lot that would use dual anger, and I have never seen those relationships last long. I'm sure we can all relate on this issue. I believe that if you truly love somebody, you will not use anger, but kindess to try to win them over. Use logic to make sense out of the situation, and come to a solution.

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